That's certainly a position you can take. Of course, right now it would be a position that is in violation of 18 USC § 3056. You'll have to change that. Good luck.
The first lady should be offered ss protection at taxpayer expense in DC, yes
If after the POTUS admonishes people to sacrifice and to not take vacations and the wife still wants to go on vacation then he should use his money to pay for it all INCLUDING giving us taxpayers the money paid for SS.
That is quite fair and equitiable and sends a message to the people that 0dumbo understands when he asks us all to sacrifice he includes himself and the POS wife.