Ok, I believe I said the following.
Are you sexually active, or planning to become sexually active soon? Then you should get the HPV vaccine.
Are you not sexually active? Then don’t get the HPV vaccine.
And “I’m” the naive one? I’ve argued in favour of getting tested before getting married, and before having sex. Why? Because people lie.
You chose to accept the risks, with your wife. I’m sorry that it didn’t work out for you. I’m not sure why you are attacking me for what your wife did to you, but that’s your business.
Trusting anyone, ever, is a risk. The risk of a spouse cheating is far higher than the risk of a side effect of a vaccine. We can talk about just how many orders of magnitude bigger the risk is if you want. Logic says take the smaller risk.
Ok, I believe I said the following. Are you sexually active, or planning to become sexually active soon? Then you should get the HPV vaccine.
Actually, you said this:
The only time Gardasil is at all useful, is if someone chooses to have sex with someone else who is already infected.
Which is ridiculous. 1) Most people infected with HPV have no idea that they are infected. 2) There's no guarantee that they won't go and have sex with someone else after you're in a relationship with them.