40 years ago I was working on a construction project. Some of the crew was planning to head out for beer after work, I told them I was heading home to babysit so my wife could get out. One of them commented on my wife trusting me to take care of my 2 year old daughter, and he wasn't joking, he thought it was out of line. I've always wondered just where the Hell his head was, just how many men could see their baby daughter or any little kid as a sex object?
Maybe we're naieve, maybe things are worse than we suspect.