AH! So... if it's "not genetic", being born homosexual must be a plain old "birth defect" -- right?
"empathy, and kindness"... Nnnnnooo... How about selfishness and perversion...?
Likewise, my comment “born that way doesn't have to mean genetic” (which I offered no opinion on as I am not sure if the conditions that cause homosexual attractions to develop are predominately genetic, environmental or social) was a rebuking of the idea that born that way must mean genetic. the fact of the matter is a person goes through 9 months of development prior to being born; there is evidence that environment factors (mainly the biological conditions of the womb) during pregnancy play a factor (the birth order effect the article I linked to, for example) in homosexual attraction development; if womb conditions do, by far and large, cause homosexual attractions to develop, it would be fair to say that homosexuals are born that way in spite of the lack of genetic influence.
being conservative does not mean I have to gloss over every and any nuance on this topic or any other.
and empathy and kindness come directly from the article I linked too. (which is the main reason I reject that explanation.)