“…Whatever happened to personal pride and self-esteem…”
This is modern pride and self-esteem, the only accomplishment she has to-date! The same type telling us how brilliant they are while texting each other to vote for the Kenyan Clown & Mau Mau in Chief.
This is hardly an "accomplishment." Speaking as a woman, and meaning no disrespect to men, but young, single men are not all that complex, and it's not much of an "accomplishment" to lure one into bed.