My cousin is gay and lives with his partner, and I agree with you to a point. The violence is often manifest from self-loathing. In my cousin's case, he was a closet homo for most of his youth, and he tried to take his life several times before he finally came out and everyone in our family accepted him as-is. His despondency never went away, it just migrated to a new subject: his partners.
I would bet that many guys aren't proud of what they're doing, but as the social experiment of liberalism continues to grip our country, it will grow to be socially acceptable, and this sort of behavior will likely wane.
Sad really. Violence against another of the same gender, regardless of relationship, is really hardwired in us. Women keep away other women to ensure they have exclusive access to the male's breeding and relational benefits while men fight other men for dominance and show. Two men or two women being together in a relationship is completely counter to natural order, IMHO.
No matter how “socially acceptable” it becomes (even in the extreme of requiring homosexuality by law),
the Law, written on our hearts as human beings,
will always tell us that it’s wrong.
This is the source of the “despondency”,
and there is no way to escape it.
It won't. They are immature adults centered on self. Their whole lifestyle is hedonistic and revolves around what makes them happy. And nothing does for very long. Monogamy is not something most of them practice. Mental illness does not cure itself simply because most other people are forced to accept it as "normal".
Two men or two women being together in a relationship is completely counter to natural order, IMHO.
It absolutely is counter to normalcy. It adds nothing in evolutionary terms. They are relationships that are focused totally on sex. There is no "family". They even simulate normal relationships. It is two people, pretending to be what they are not.
Their self-loathing will not wane, even if society “accepts” them, which is being forced upon us currently.
Their self-loathing is their consciences. That voice will never be silenced.