Yes, and when you have your roles in a marriage worked out, it works. But the husband has to be willing to lead. I think in a lot of marriages the husband is as unwilling to lead as the wife is to follow.
As Dr Voddie Baucham says -
Husbands, you ARE the leader. It doesn’t say you “should be” the leader. You ARE the leader.
Now, whether you do a good job of it or not determines how successful your marriage and family will be.