>>If you equate monetary success with intelligence, then I guess you havent been paying very close attention to the last 50 or 60 years of American culture. HL Mencken said it best: Nobody ever went broke underestimating the intelligence of the American public.<<
IOW you are a loser and she is a winner and your jealousy of her success is on your sleeve.
Understandable (if unenviable).
You’re the one who brought up money - not me.