Yes, then there is my ex, who walked away from a mid six figure salary to live in a trailer and drink. I went from at home mother of four to working mom with a jumbo mortgage, and lots to juggle. I worked six days a week for seven years to make it work and homeschooled the kids.
My alimony? zip
My child support? 720 per month for four children
My ex turned to drugs, booze, lots of partying. She’s still on drugs to this day. I feel for you.