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Years and marriages later, they still pay
www.boston.com ^ | July 18, 2010 | Bella English

Posted on 07/18/2010 7:42:32 AM PDT by GOPsterinMA

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To: IronJack

On the other side, my mother, who back in my childhood seems to have been a leftist — and really wanted the divorce from my father — had some commie woman lawyer do the divorce — no alimony — minimal child support, no medical,no dental, no school, no nothing. And still my father complained bitterly that he had been taken to the cleaners. My mother worked 2 jobs to pay for my braces, to send me to private school.
I thought she made a big mistake in the divorce.


81 posted on 07/18/2010 10:42:35 AM PDT by kabumpo (Kabumpo)
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To: melsec

Are there many single Aussie women?


82 posted on 07/18/2010 10:46:11 AM PDT by GOPsterinMA (Vote Jill Stein for governor.)
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To: Travis T. OJustice
I find it hard to believe a judge could make such a ruling without consent of the payer, and if they do make such rulings, i find it hard they survive the ride home. This shit is insane!

No argument here.

lack of consequences has emboldened many a jurist.

83 posted on 07/18/2010 10:46:18 AM PDT by going hot (Happiness is a Momma Deuce)
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To: GOPsterinMA

There seem to be but I’ve got 30years to life with my wife so I don’t scan the horizons 2 much.

Mel


84 posted on 07/18/2010 11:01:23 AM PDT by melsec
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To: RandallFlagg

The more people like you we can get the better! Adelaide and the Sunshine Coast in Queensland are great too!


85 posted on 07/18/2010 11:03:09 AM PDT by melsec
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To: BenKenobi

Good for you!


86 posted on 07/18/2010 11:15:54 AM PDT by livius
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To: melsec

Nice - thanks for the info!


87 posted on 07/18/2010 11:19:49 AM PDT by GOPsterinMA (Vote Jill Stein for governor.)
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To: GOPsterinMA

I’ve never known anyone who paid alimony. Child support yes but not alimony.

Maybe I’ve just led a sheltered life.


88 posted on 07/18/2010 11:23:34 AM PDT by Graybeard58 (We couldn't keep the commandments when there was only ONE!)
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To: GOPsterinMA

DH and I are now in our 45th year of marriage. So, I guess we could qualify for “Leave it to Beaver”. He married me after the first louse hit me, cheated, and took drugs. He adopted my two babies after the first louse quit paying child support, and cancelled the health insurance on the babies.

We had two more children together, and worked at our marriage. Now he has Parkinson’s, and I am his caregiver. We have so many happy memories together. I never worked outside the home, but did help him with his business, for no pay.

We aren’t perfectly “suited to one another”, but we believe in respecting each other, and putting up with each other’s idiosyncrasies.

Love is a verb.


89 posted on 07/18/2010 12:15:41 PM PDT by jacquej
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To: jacquej

Beautiful!!! Nice to see success!!!

Prayers for your husband’s condition.


90 posted on 07/18/2010 12:17:35 PM PDT by GOPsterinMA (Vote Jill Stein for governor.)
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To: umgud
If I’d have shot when I 1st wanted to, I’d have been out by now.

Still possibly the best option.

I say that's a joke son.

91 posted on 07/18/2010 12:32:01 PM PDT by csvset
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To: Reeses

All leftism is driven by envy. It’s not quite that they want to be married. They want to destroy traditional marriage and turn it into a joke of what it once was.

Conservatives like myself who believe in family values do believe in divorce. My wife doesn’t either. It is not an option in our family. Do you realize that in three generations not ONE family member has divorced. If you don’t believe in divorce you won’t do it. Divorce is because the couple is selfish and spoiled and decide they want to go out and have fun. It STUNS me how many so called conservatives believe in divorce. I just don’t understand it!!!!!!


92 posted on 07/18/2010 12:32:58 PM PDT by napscoordinator
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To: umgud

You have my sympathies.

If I were Palladin, you’d have my services;-)

Some women give the rest of us a bad name.


93 posted on 07/18/2010 1:26:09 PM PDT by happygrl (Continuing to predict that 0bama will resign)
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To: napscoordinator

Divorce is a French word, invented by French lawyers because of French metrosexuals.


94 posted on 07/18/2010 1:27:06 PM PDT by Reeses
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To: El Gato
Now that will do a lot to help build the family up.

Closing the barn door after the horse has left and been attacked by a pack of coyotes and left to rot in the sun for a week. Sane people simply aren't going to take the risk of marriage anymore. Nor should they given the disincentives.

95 posted on 07/18/2010 3:32:55 PM PDT by garbanzo (Government is not the solution to our problems. Government is the problem.)
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To: Travis T. OJustice
In my divorce, I refused to pay alimony. Not even the 1$ a year noose they like to use. I swore that I dwould fight until every last cent was gone and told the lawyers (mine and hers) they wouldn’t ever get paid if they pushed the issue any further, and the issue was dropped and Inever heard another peep about it during the remaining proceedings.

Ditto ..... They couldn't believe every penny would stop and I'd go to prison over alimony.

Nam Vet

96 posted on 07/18/2010 3:38:20 PM PDT by Nam Vet (Are you better off than you were 4 trillion dollars ago?)
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To: livius

He was taking advantage of her. The last straw is when he got divorced the second time, and was using her money to pay his support on the second family. Absolute scum.


97 posted on 07/18/2010 4:08:58 PM PDT by BenKenobi (We cannot do everything at once, but we can do something at once. -Silent Cal)
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To: jacquej

God Bless You that is heart warming.


98 posted on 07/18/2010 4:49:02 PM PDT by Little Bill (Harry Browne is a poofter)
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To: GOPsterinMA
Last October the SJC, in Mass, repealed the 13th Amendment. You are an alimony slave for life.
99 posted on 07/18/2010 4:56:25 PM PDT by Little Bill (Harry Browne is a poofter)
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To: umgud
If I’d have shot when I 1st wanted to, I’d have been out by now.

I know I shouldn't laugh because it's not funny what you are going through. But, you still made it FUNNY (in a way)!

100 posted on 07/18/2010 5:02:19 PM PDT by kcvl
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