[thecodont]

one of the great failures of western culture is the diminishment of marriage which has happened because people are given “rights” of marriage without the commitment.

Exactly.

"Dating" these days (as opposed to what was called "dating" 50 years ago) doesn't mean getting to know someone through an extended period of social activities together (dinner, movies, sport/entertainment events, a kiss under the porch light, etc.) with an eye toward the possibility of the formal commitment of marriage. Instead, "dating" (not even "exclusive" dating) means full sexual intercourse, often without protection.

It's strange that most modern men approach a woman--even in a very casual relationship--with these demands and expectations, and then they are so surprised at the resulting pregnancy. I don't think this surprise is because sex education isn't being taught, I think it's because marriage isn't being taught.

[afraidfortherepublic]

I don't think this surprise is because sex education isn't being taught, I think it's because marriage isn't being taught.

Very good point and well said.

[Chickensoup]

I think it’s because marriage isn’t being taught.

You understand what I am trying to say!

Marriage is not being taught because marriage has been marginalized and has become irrelevent in the face of “rights”.