The new LCMC ordains women, which is a deal breaker and they also practice open communion. I know the idea of open communion sounds welcoming but the Lord's Supper is much more than a social event. I take I Corinthians 11:27 seriously.
You did not offend. I personally prefer male Pastors. I do not find the issue of female pastors a deal breaker. I have found that (generally) they are great care givers but poor leaders. I am just struggling right now. It is difficult to leave a church you have been a member of since you were 10. Pray for me and my family.