You've got it. While there are some good points to this piece, I think it basically overstates the problem. Men who simply "do what they will" are a problem. A woman is a civilizing influence and ought to say "Don't do this; Why don't you do that?" I see that as beneficial and not restrictive.
But a feminist who demands that a woman adhere to her every whim is a curse. The man is the ultimate leader of the family.