Posted on 04/23/2010 5:10:06 PM PDT by SandRat
FORT CAMPBELL, Ky. , April 23, 2010 Unlike many of his peers who grew up in the military, Darien Crank was 12 when his father joined the Army.
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His family went from living on the Jersey Shore in a one-bedroom apartment his parents slept in the living room to a four-bedroom house on post here.
But along with the improved standard of living, Darien also had to adapt to a lifestyle punctuated by his fathers frequent deployments. Dariens dad, Sgt. Arthur Carter, a truck driver, is deployed to Afghanistan, his third deployment in six years.
At first it was weird with him being home every night and then just leaving and being gone for two or three months at a time, for training, Darien, an 18-year-old high school senior, said. Thats the first time hed left for that long.
The familys first move took them out of their hometown of Long Beach, N.J., to Hawaii, Darien recalled. It was tough to be so far from home, he said, away from his friends and extended family.
That first move was horrible, Darien said. I was born and raised in New Jersey and didnt know anything else. I was homesick for six months.
His father left shortly after for a yearlong deployment to Iraq, compounding Dariens difficulties.
In time, though, he made friends and began to see the silver lining of a military move, especially after a trip back to his hometown. While he felt he matured, his New Jersey friends seemed stuck in a time warp, he said.
They were still getting in trouble, he said. I learned from military kids to be more mature. They were still doing the same things as when I left.
Dariens family then moved from Hawaii to Fort Campbell, where he has made friends and stays busy with football and track. His devotion to football has paid off with a scholarship to Tusculum College in neighboring Tennessee.
The teen said he has adjusted to his fathers absences over time, but admits hes not as close with his dad as he used to be. Darien said his father was around to teach him how to ride his bike and swim in his early childhood. However, his fathers current deployment will cause him to miss out on Dariens graduation, prom and sendoff to college.
Darien said he and his father connect through shared interests, such as repairing stereos and cars. But his fathers frequent absences have taken a toll on the relationship, he acknowledged.
Despite the ups and downs, Darien said he hasnt ruled out joining the military himself at some point.
Its not a bad lifestyle, he said.
I live and teach in a community adjacent to Fort Hood. It’s amazing what our military kids deal with...and still turn out okay. Good that this young man recognized that his old friends weren’t going anywhere. He will do well.
I’ve lived on several installations throughout my career and the problem I have is that there are some military families that let their kids run wild. When the servicemember gets a little higher in rank they seem to think their kid wears the rank too.
The majority of military kids are fine but it is the select few who give the rest a bad rap sometimes.
I don’t know if this video has been posted hereon before, or not.
It’s worth a view . . . supposedly the poster is trying for 7,500,000 views. It was evidently up to 5,131,835 views when I watched it.
http://media.causes.com/576542?p_id=92681239
It’s a THANK OUR TROOPS sort of thing.
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