You know what your right. This man I know, when he’s been drinking will sometimes cry about his two babies that were aborted. Even though as far as I know he was ok with it at the time.
Their grief comes up in church recovery discussions rather often and needs to be more widely addressed.
“A Dream A Lot Like Mine” at http://www.emmettgrayson.com is my small part of that in a song. It’s in the menu on the “mixpod” player if you’d like to listen