The feminists did a good job of tearing down man's natural instinct to help/protect women and children. I had nut job professor in college that said opening a door for a woman implied the man was allowing her to enter. So he would never, under any circumstance, open a door for a woman. Colleges are still spewing this crap. No wonder young girls are confused and think they want a metrosexual.
The left has been pathologizing boyhood for years and drugging young males into submission under the guise of "treating" their supposedly abnormal behavior.
You're right, girls are being taught that normal male behavior is an illness, rather than learning how to deal with it in a feminine way.
And we end up with masculinized women and feminized men. This can't have a happy ending.