exactly my point
if they can be open then they will make remarks, suggestions crude comments and even approach.
How is a guy who is straight supposed to deal with another guy who is doing this openly and maybe the officer is even a open homosexual?
we all know this is a step for them to say they should be married and get kids.
just another step around to further their agenda
How is a guy that is straight supposed to deal with a gay that is in the closet?
You don't think closet gays make passes?
At least if you know which way they lean, you can give them a wide berth.
As to officers, it is the same as a male straight officer having straight females under his command. One sure way to have your military career come to a screeching halt is to try to fraternize with a subordinate under your command.
we all know this is a step for them to say they should be married and get kids. just another step around to further their agenda
My point is that they are ALREADY in the military and have been, legally, since the early 1990's.
My preference is to know so I can be at the other end of the shower room.
If you are in a common military shower full of naked guys, would your preference would be:
A. Know that the naked guy right next to you is gay so you can go to the other end of the room.
B. Not know if the naked guy right next to you is gay so you can wonder.