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Actually, I have to say your prose is not exactly reader friendly. Yeah, you can accuse us all of not being very good readers, but frankly, you are a bit wordy.

I wasn't accusing you of not being a very good reader. If you'll look it over, you'll see that. I appended your name because ROLF had done so. He was the reactive reader I was describing. He saw things that weren't there. He failed to see things that were there. He responded to things that weren't there and thought he was responding to something that I had written but that he had only imagined.

Here's that sentence you were talking about:

"A father and mother who live together in a state of mutual respect, who care for each other, who have children who aren't merely the unavoidable consequence of their pursuit of satisfying their sexual urges, who have a clear idea of what they need to do to provide for their children's needs, who make the home a shelter against whatever chaos the children may experience out in the world, who help to make the world intelligible to the children but make sure the children learn that they are not the center of the universe do more than anything or anyone else to ensure that their children will grow up to be adults who treat others right and who will help to protect others from harm."

Let me arrange it so that the different parts can be seen:

A father and mother
1. who live together in a state of mutual respect,
2. who care for each other,
3. who have children who aren't merely the unavoidable consequence of their pursuit of satisfying their sexual urges,
4. who have a clear idea of what they need to do to provide for their children's needs,
5. who make the home a shelter against whatever chaos the children may experience out in the world,
6. who help to make the world intelligible to the children but make sure the children learn that they are not the center of the universe
do more than anything or anyone else to ensure that their children will grow up to be adults who treat others right and who will help to protect others from harm.