[brytlea]

I would say that IS the default mode if you use the Bible as your guidebook. BTW that was one long sentence!

[aruanan]

I would say that IS the default mode if you use the Bible as your guidebook. BTW that was one long sentence!

Default means what happens on its own without intervention. The NT ideal of marriage and family certainly doesn't happen on its own and takes a huge amount of work even to be somewhat successful. Was that one sentence before?