“I tend to blame the parents of the kid who’s being bullied. Even more than the bullies themselves.”
ya know I’ve had the same thought with people who get beat up, raped, or murdered. yeah its all their fault.
Kids can’t defend themselves nowadays. If they do, then they are the ones’ to get kicked out. I know I’ve been there and my son has been there. Schools are worthless when it comes to protecting the innocent.
I tend to blame the parents of the kid who’s being bullied. Even more than the bullies themselves.
Then you replied ...
ya know I’ve had the same thought with people who get beat up, raped, or murdered. yeah its all their fault.
That's not the point that is being made here...
One unspoken point is that you're not going to make the world around you a pleasant place, like you might want.
Then, secondly, you need to teach your kids how to cope with the meanness, evil and terrible things that are done to people and how to think about it and what to do about it.
That's where the parents come into play there, with their kids.
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Sarcasm duly noted.
But if a parent deliberatly places that child in an environment where they are likely to get beat up, raped or murdered, then what?