“For gods sake if your starving would you be picky about the expiration date of a cookie.”
The earthqake happened less than a week ago. They may be very hungry but they are not starving.
However I agree with your point.
I'm sure one could find such a person - OCD is not uncommon. To decide to not help on the basis of some person reacting like that is pretty crummy.
These people are now dealing with an unimaginable horror show of 40-50,000 estimated dead in the streets, many more severely injured, and an infrastructure broken to bits. A cookie? Get real.