“If you walked into a store and walked out without paying for the items you picked up, that is equivalent to stealing music.””
No. It’s nothing like it. The toaster is gone from the store. The music is still there. Nothing was stolen. Only copied.
While you were sleeping later that night, with your car safely in your garage, 18 different people stole your car. In the morning you get in your car and drive to work again.