All this is a very touchy subject, and 2 people will give you 4 opinions. I would hate to be in the profession and be exposed to these tough decisions day in and day out. No matter what you do, someone will invariably disagree with you and be right somehow.
God bless the people who endure this for us.
It is certainly wise to think through what you would wish for if suffering from a terminal disease, well ahead of the time that it might be needed, and try to secure that, though Bummercare may moot it all in a very ugly way.
Well said BCC. As my Dad (who died in my arms while on morphine under hospice care) used to say, It’ll be our turn, if we live long enough...
In my family, at least with my father, we took a vote. I lost.