When my younger brother was 6 a bully held his thumb to a lit match and gave it a painful nasty burn. The next day my older brother, who was 16, quietly and privately cornered the little thug. He threatened him with near death if he ever so much as approach me or my brother. This kid never came near to either my brother or me again the entire time we lived there.
Another time when my oldest brother was about 13 he was selling flowers at the elevated train station. ( My uncle owned green houses.) Two gay men made advances to my brother. When my uncle learned about it, he and another uncle had a talk with these guys. Again...The same story. These guys never approached my brother again.
When my oldest brother was married with a family, drug dealers set up shop on a neighborhood corner. The police did nothing. So...My brother and a neighbor had a quiet and friendly talk with the low level dealers. They pointed out the various roofs where a sniper could easily hide himself. They reminded the dealers that police wouldn't be very interested in investigating the death or injury of a dealer, and maybe they would be better off finding another neighborhood. The next day they were permanently gone.
I often wonder about these bullying stories. When are the men with balls in the family?
I often wonder about these bullying stories. When are the men with balls in the family? I think there have been about 10,549 "studies" about black communities, and the common denominator that even the liberals cannot dance around is the fact that the majority of these families have no father around to instill love, discipline, and rules.
The kids resent their single mother, who may try and overcompensate for a lack of father by becoming belittling and overbearing. Their kids start acting like caged animals who have been beaten in their cages, and anger swells up. The mother is resentful for being poor and finally realizes she was used and abandoned, so she beats and abuses the children.
They have no outlet for their anger and rage.........then......they discover their "black leaders" and community condones (and even applauds) hatred and violence towards white people.
Voilà - instant powder keg.
I am not a genius, but I defy some liberal sociologist to make more sense in a 100 page report than what I just posted with a few words.