It’s sad how so many people blame the parents, especially Mom, in cases like this. None of us know the situation and none of us is/was a perfect parent.
I’m certainly not a perfect parent, but NONE of my kids are mass murderers. The worst thing they do is neglect to clean up their room.
Mrs. Klebold seriously had her parental head up her ass and a lot of other kids and parents had to suffer the consequences.
imho . . . that’s true to a negligible point.
PLEASE research
REACTIVE ATTACHENT DISORDER.
If you are not determined and able to emotionally attach with healthy affection to your child the first 8 years of their lives . . . and carry that forward as they age . . .
THEN DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN.
HEALTHILY ATTACHED CHILDREN TURN OUT FINE WITH IMPERFECT PARENTS. EVERY TIME. NO EXCEPTIONS.
HAVE NEVER SEEN A SINGLE EXCEPTION IN 35+ YEARS OF COUNSELING AND TEACHING.