I can’t see the big deal about virginity.
To perpetuate the car analogy, if someone sold you a used car and said it was “new” you might be upset if you found out about the switcheroo. In our country, we are pretty accustomed to the idea that we’ll probably not be marrying a virgin on our wedding night, but in that culture, I think it’s still a shameful thing to marry a harlot.
Since you're not an Arab, you do not fear comparison.
You’ve got to get in touch with your primitive side... Imagine you’re a monkey who just climbed down out of the trees... You’ve got your eye on this pretty little primate when you learn she’s been had by every swinging scallywag in a neighboring troop. You’d be furious! That sort of thing would just scorch your cheerios. Well, like I said, you’ve got to get in touch with your primitive side.
In the context of islam it has nothing to do with the woman (or girl) involved. Rather with the ego of the sanctimonious, strutting, ultimately vacuous moose-limb who has been "wronged."
The islamic cesspool has no redeeming qualities.