I find you to be as arrogant as most people that do not have children. If you have never “been there” it is arrogant to think that you know “how it should be” as opposed to someone who knows the reality. You keep imagining that you have all the answers, that you know what it’s like to be a parent. I am done with you.
There’s nothing arrogant about it. This isn’t about “being there” or experience. This is about simple reality. You said a parent could be 3 days without sleep and so tired that all they’re interested in when the baby cries is if they’re bleeding. I’m pointing out that a person 3 days without sleep is having micro-naps (falling asleep without warning or ability to prevent it for upwards of 30 seconds), and somebody having micro-naps is unsafe to drive. Period. That’s not imaging answers, that is a simple scientific reality, next time you’re driving count off 30 seconds and think of what would have happened if you’d been asleep during that time. That’s how Herb Brooks died.