Selfish if you have 18 already IMO to keep on having babies in the more dangerous years.
Really isn't rocket science here, just plain common sense and responsibility.
I think the Duggar’s are nice folks, I just think when you have a football team of kids already you are making responsibilities for others if you keep pushing kids out in later years that could be at risk.
If they get a baby with problems, they are choosing to make their kids care for their sibling until death. Kind of selfish IMO since it's not like they were going for a first kid.
I don’t think they were “going for another kid”. They were having sex and she got pregnant. That can happen. When they first got married she used birth control and became pregnant anyway. That pregnancy resulted in a miscarriage. After that they committed to God the number of children they would have. God has blessed them with children and with the finances to provide for them. So now that they have 18 children do you want them to now decide it is in their hands and not God’s?