I helped both my mom and dad with their advanced directives. The local hospital had an exceptionally good template.
Some of these questions are in my opinion not appropriate. My Dad was a veteran of world war II. The financial questions are especially inappropriate particularly for veterans. The veteran is entitled to medical care from the government system.
I agree with you -— but notice that the VA is starting to shift the costs back to the vet (For the record I hate that.)
I have never said that I supported anything in the present approach to health care “reform” moreover I have always said the vets deserve the best possible health care