Not at all. You are, in effect, forfeiting control of the schools to the government.
The government has no business being in education, period.
It’s not a Constitutionally delegated responsibility.
No, no one forfeited control of the schools to the government; the government just took it over with the help of with the liberal elements who choose to enforce their ideology through the abuse and misuse of the judiciary by filing lawsuits to have only their views taught.
Those using the ACLU to gain control of curriculum are the ones responsible for forfeiting control of the schools to the government, because by going to the government through litigation, they demanded the government take a position and issue a ruling on the matter.