You can remind your friends that the Lord raised up Esther to save the Jews from destruction. In the New Testament, woman aren’t supposed to be over men in ministry/teaching the Word. Maybe Sarah is being ‘raised up’ for a similar reason; to save the US from destruction.
That’s how I like to think of it about her.
But at the same time, if a woman is called to preach the Word-I don’t have the least problem with it. The usual “rules” don’t apply in the end times, imo. God will use whom He will.