There are "eldercare" lawyers who specialize in protecting inheritance money from being used for long term care. The ads say, "Don't let your hard earned assets be used up for nursing home care. Protect your assets so that your children can enjoy them", or something to that effect.
That galls me. Yeah, that's the spirit. Pass all your assets on to your children, then have unrelated taxpayers foot your bill for long term care. That's just wrong.
As a boomer with living parents, I am expecting nothing from my parents. If they need to use it for their comfort and care in old age, so be it. They've given me FAR more important things than money.