>>Would you want to look at the face of the person who raped you on the face of a person who is needy and angry and rejected and aggressive and demanding?<<
You are making more assumptions about the daughter, that borders on Straw Man.
From my years of working Psych, I can tell you that the lady needs some help regarding the rape.
Then you also know that help for these things shouldn't be forced on someone.
So what? That doesn't give the state the right to burst into her life and divulge her identity to a stranger who has fantasies about her.
You need some training in dealing with rape victims. The woman does not need any more help, she dealt with it and put it behind her. She went on to have a family, and for the state to expose her like this is horrendous!
“From my years of working Psych, I can tell you that the lady needs some help regarding the rape.”
Perhaps she just needs you and your ilk to just leave her alone.
IMHO, Psych workers most often cause more harm than good in dealing with situational trauma victims.Based on my own life experience and observation of others.