You are "shoulding" all over someone you don't know. You don't know the offspring, either, who for all you know might be a druggie or prostitute -- or might be a wealthy entrepreneur, whereas the mother might be a working-class person whose husband would dump her over this. You really don't know. So stop judging.
You are telling me to stop judging? Most comments on FR are judgments of some kind.
You don’t have a clue either as to what is going on other than that some woman ignored a letter from the state, didn’t like the results and filed a law suit over it.