bitch seems to fit the best.
Dear Senator Boxer,
Glad to know you feel you’ve worked hard to be called “Senator” and deserve to be called such by a General during testimony at the Capitol.
You’ve hardly got any understanding of our military. Ma’am is drilled into young men by good mothers and drill sargents. Apparently, you aren’t aware of that concept, so please publicly apologize for your arrogant ignorance. It would go a long way to those who serve and BTW remember when you were elected “Senator” you were elected to be a servant to the people; us!
God bless,
miss anne