The cynicism is striking. Not just from you, but a couple of posters.
Are you divorced? I am just curious as to why you think men and women have to be enemies?
What does it matter.
The fact is that marriage in the USA have regressed to a business affair not a romantic one?
Have you ever been divorced?
Have your wife slap a no fault divorce on you and see just how fast your lose 70% of all your life’s work.... then you can get back to me.
I don’t get the whole enemies thing either. It’s disheartening.