So is it the God of the Bible that teaches the family how to teach you how you will live in the life after this life?
You say "a loving Father."
Do you mean the loving Father, the God of the Bible?
Or is it a loving father, who now is a god, but used to be a man?
And yes, I believe you are following one of the teachings of some good man who studied the bible and got a different answer from another good man who also studied the Bible.