Discussing theological differences is not the same as disrespecting another, nor of even disliking them. In fact, just the opposite is often the case. This is not a theological thread, but it has become one. So that being the case, you need to bring your best game and defend your theology if you call it that and not defend just a life-style.
No it is not I who needs to do this, it is the Holy Spirit that witness to those who are ready to receive all I can do is share!