Whoever the guys is, he needs to flee the states and change his name ASAP. Sounds like this loonie's "next trick" is to out him and go after him legally. She probably already visualizes the reunion..."NOW he'll come back to me..."
YIKES!
Personally, when I am asked what I learned from previous relationships, I respond "how to run like the wind".
I wonder when the State will start garnishment procedure against the Dad. Innocent men have been forced to pay child support for their wives’s bastard children. :0)