I actually hold the boys a little more accountable than the girls. I have sons AND daughters, so I don’t think I have a prejudice.
From personal experience, and observation, it seems to me that the boys push to “go all the way” a lot more often and insistently than the girls do. Of course, that’s not always the case, and of course, the girls should say no.
What say the FReeper dudes and FReeperettes? Is it usually the male or usually the female pushing things along physically?
“What say the FReeper dudes and FReeperettes? Is it usually the male or usually the female pushing things along physically?”
In the teens & early 20s, everything I’ve seen with our kids & in my own life is the boys pushing it. To the point of breaking up with girls who won’t go along. But I do know of an instance where the girl was in her early 20s, wanted to push it, too, but refused to use birth control b/c she is Baptist & believed it was against her religion. Or perhaps she wanted the result, which was, voila, a pregnancy & shotgun wedding. She then reverted to being very holier-than-thou towards the world.
I can give you that answer from my own personal experience, males (boys or adults) most certainly do. And relentlessly so.
Now, I understand there is a difference in biology. But there was a time, for most males (there have always been exceptions), due to upbringing, less effective birth control and that most couples married if a girl/woman got pregnant, this wasn't the case.