You hit a little bit on the problem, although the lifestyle itself is very dangerous and the medical problems can be considerable. I’ve always looked at this as a tragic form of mental illness and if the military starts enshrining the “perfectly normal” mantra in their sensitivity training they will start driving regular people out.
remember too that what happens now when say these two homo’s have sex and get caught?
what happens when these two men fall out from each other and now jealousy happens?
The issue I cant believe is so important to obama that he wants to change it and yet he keeps silent on Israel