I have found the most annoying part of relationships is that you have to be romantic to have sex. Sorry I don’t feel like busting out flower petals just to get naughty.
I mean the candles and wine and the flowers— for what? A few minutes and that’s right I said it a few minutes. After a long day’s work I just mostly want to watch sports and some cable news and go to sleep with a little naughty in between. I don’t think that’s too much to ask.
Oh, baby...you sure are a dreamy one. /sarc
You could go buy a donut, then after you have used it to have your little naughty, you could eat it.
Women's minds work differently. You might be all about quick physical stimulation, but women (even when we don't want to admit it) operate on a more emotional level. They are stimulated by the sight, but by touch, smell, hearing (why do cheesy love songs work on women. If you listen, a lot of them have the same kind of "sound" to them), etc. Maybe when you're not wanting to do any set up, you should just talk like Barry White.
So true. Sex is just a tiny part of the intimacy. Take it away though (against one side’s will), and the whole relationship sort of rots away.
Been there, done that.
We women are crockpots — you men are microwaves.
Mature men will appreciate and enjoy their crockpots — and be willing to allow it to simmer for awhile before eating their meal.
You are describing sex outside of relationship with a woman. That’s not what God intended marriage to be.
Doing things your way (slam bam) is something you can do alone. You don’t need a precious woman for that.
Give HER what she wants and needs, and you’ll have more intimacy (and sex) than you could ever hope for.
My husband does some of those romantic things. and they’re great, because he’s such an awesome person in every way and so giving. I don’t require them (but the food is great). I’m not a really romantic type person and rarely do the “romantic” thing.