[exist]

I think they better focus on the girls? Because I just don’t think most teenage boys have the ability to say no to sex with girls unless:

A) They’re very scared.
B) They’re confused about their sexuality.
C) They’re gay.

Little boys are like animals. From what I recall anyway.

[Antoninus]

Because I just don’t think most teenage boys have the ability to say no to sex with girls unless: A) They’re very scared. B) They’re confused about their sexuality. C) They’re gay.

Nonsense. I managed to say no to sex many times before I was married, and not for any of the above reasons. Why? Because I sincerely believed that you should save intercourse for marriage. Admittedly, it became a lot more difficult to wait once I was engaged.

That said, I think boys should be taught that it's a virtue to be strong and resist sexual temptation before marriage--that they are actually more of a man if they don't use girls like cheap hookers. And that they should avoid girls that act like skanks like the plague.

[messierhunter]

A) They’re very scared.
B) They’re confused about their sexuality.
C) They’re gay.


Well I took a virginity pledge near the time this study was conducted and I ended up abstaining till marriage, so which was I? I was accused of B) and C) by immature classmates for refusing sex, but I'm now happily married to a woman, so that leaves A). I thought it was my sense of moral responsibility and convictions, but I guess I must have just been "very scared."