In the last few years, the theory that stands out the most, is that all human beings, have three basic instincts...ALL God given and used in this life to varying extremes...benficially and destructively...
1 Social...the need to interact with others and achieve our percieved place in society...
2 Security...having those things that enable us to survive and thrive in the world around us...food, shelter etc...
3 Sexual...to at the least reproduce [instinct]...to any extreme of self-centeredness of abuse of the instinct...
this thread obviously deals with sex, but they all really do inter-relate annd the lines become blurred...
the simple fact is that God made the orgasm a VERY pleasurable and fleeting experience...most guys have no problem 'gettin there'...or theirs' as the case may be ...
ladies could do themselves alot of good if they would communicate and help their mates to help them be 'happy'...
I think that would reduce the use of the word 'chore' quite a bit...
Your comments make sense to me. Thanks for the comments. I agree with that last thought in particular, communication is the key.