I have spent time working 12 to 15 hour days for long periods of time. Somehow I still found a way to be intimate with my wife. It wasn’t a burden. It wasn’t work on my part. It never even occurred to me to tell her to wait a few months until it was over.
If you think there are reasons why you should be able to say no, then I think you’re cheating yourself more than you know. And you are cheating your husband as well.
Intimacy is the reward at the end of the day. If you can’t stand to get close to your mate and fall in love for an hour or so every few days, I am sorry.
It’s all about priorities. There is nothing more important to me than being intimate with my wife.
If a family crisis comes up or a natural disaster, of course there will be interruptions. By and large, those are the rare exception.
“If you think there are reasons why you should be able to say no, then I think you’re cheating yourself more than you know. And you are cheating your husband as well.”
I’m not sure what you’re talking about - you seem to have interpreted something into my posts that were not my intention.
Merry Christmas.