Posted on 12/23/2008 12:09:15 AM PST by goldstategop
“Actually, I disagree. If you have been engaging her all day, she IS, as a matter of fact, ready at the drop of a hat.”
And if you haven’t been engaging her over that period of time, it shouldn’t be surprising if she isn’t ready.
So, basically, we agree.
“It’s just amazing what used to happen when the hat got dropped, and what doesn’t over time. Playing by one set of rules for a couple of years until you snag the guy, then starting to play by a different set after that is not right.”
That’s not my experience, so I wouldn’t know.
I’ve heard women say the same thing in reverse.
“If you think there are reasons why you should be able to say no, then I think you’re cheating yourself more than you know. And you are cheating your husband as well.”
I’m not sure what you’re talking about - you seem to have interpreted something into my posts that were not my intention.
Merry Christmas.
When that topic comes up, I’m sure you’ll have lots to say. For now I’ll stick with the topic here.
“Not being in the mood might be an indicator of real physical exhaustion or even illness from the rat race marathon. A good spouse like Denis Prager might want to get his wife to the Dr.”
Another good point.
Very difficult when she’s plain old tuckered out.
Merry Christmas to you. Take care.
Once again I’m at a loss of what you are talking about.
But I AM extremely sleep deprived right now.
Let’s just strike the last comment from me and let me extend a sincere hope for a joyous season for you and your family.
Get some sleep... ;-)
“I’m not so sure about that. I can be ready at the “drop of the hat” and all it takes is the look in his eyes. Just about everything else can wait for a half hour.”
I hate to quote Oprah, but it’s the first thing that popped into my head...”you go girl!”
okee dokee!
Oh, and Merry Christmas!
And...men think of other things as impressive, than women do.
Cheers!
...oh, and Merry Christmas!
He needs to be aware of her 'distractions'as well... but the fact that when she sees the advance coming, she has a bit of responsibility in allowing herself to be put in the mood,or gettin herself in the mood before the advance [since we all know its comin] and can do much to 'help' him get her motor started [tactfully, of course] unless she simply doesnt care...
probably sounds rambling...communication breakdown...lolol...
I look at sex, very often as I look at running. ( I have ran 5 miles, three to four times a week for nearly twenty five years now)...I rarely feel like doing it, I always feel good having had done it...and it's a great morning when I've done both before breakfast and I know the rest of the day belongs to me! (:
I get your drift - sounds like we agree :)
mark
“Excellent article. Anyone denying the truth to it, is just that—in denial.”
Well it’s ridiculous and I’m not in denial.
What I want first and foremost from my partner is emotional support. Her willing to give her body to me is not at all how I measure the evidence for her love for me. In fact I consider that notion abusive and childish. Dennis Prager often speaks of brain vs. mind... that we have to transcend our baseline desires for something better.
It’s just absolutely stupid for him to say that men measure a woman’s love for him through sex...I’ve never, ever, never, ever, felt more love for a person by making love. That may be the expression of an existing love but it doesn’t create it.
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