[vladimir998]

You know Question_Assumptions, you just made me realize something. There is a great deal of similarity between how these young women (and men too, of course) act and how homosexual men act. Homosexual men are often reckless, a danger to themselves and others, putting themselves at risk just for a thrill. It seems to me that a lot of the young women out there are only somewhat more tame, more worried about their reputations. Pleasure and adventure are their gods, and they don’t think much about the consequences. They also seem more than willing to allow themselves to be used as many homosexual men do.

[dbz77]

You know Question_Assumptions, you just made me realize something. There is a great deal of similarity between how these young women (and men too, of course) act and how homosexual men act. Homosexual men are often reckless, a danger to themselves and others, putting themselves at risk just for a thrill. It seems to me that a lot of the young women out there are only somewhat more tame, more worried about their reputations. Pleasure and adventure are their gods, and they don’t think much about the consequences. They also seem more than willing to allow themselves to be used as many homosexual men do.

The relative consequences of sex versus virginity depends on one's age.

Certainly, an unplanned pregnancy is much more traumatic at age fifteen than at age twenty-five.

And of course, pregnancy is almost impossible at fifty-five.

What about STD’s? Certainly STD’s would be very traumatic to a teenager with a life expectancy of decades.

But an octogenarian is not likely to have a long life expectancy in any case.

Now let us examine the other side, which is virginity.

Virginity is not disturbing at thirteen, since almost everyone that age is a virgin.

But what about age thirty? Imagine someone knowing that everyone else that he knows, including his own family, has had sex and he had not. How would he feel? What would be the only rational way for him to feel? And what would his peers think of it? Note again that the value of the opinions of one’s peers increase with age. At thirteen, one’s peers are dumbass kids. At thirty, one’s peers would include people who are married and have kids and can support themselves.