You wrote:
“How are they losers?”
Simple. They lose a little bit of their self-respect each and every time they give themselves away for nothing. Read Wendy Shalit’s Return to Modesty. You might be surprised.
“Just because they do not find “the One” does not mean they did not have fun.”
Oh, they have fun. But then they look at what they actually got out of acting like whores and they often feel horrible. See MD Anonymous’ Unprotected: A Campus Psychiatrist Reveals How Political Correctness in Her Profession Endangers Every Student, or see Dawn Eden’s Thrill of the Chaste.
I deal with the results of this sort of behavior on the part of young women ALL the time in my job. These young women often end up devastated, cynical, angry and rarely know why. One conversation later and they usually feel like they’ve made a tremendous discovery. Many after that entirely change their behavior and are happier for it.
Simple. They lose a little bit of their self-respect each and every time they give themselves away for nothing. Read Wendy Shalit’s Return to Modesty. You might be surprised.They are either enjoying it, or they are putting up with it for some higher purpose
Oh, they have fun. But then they look at what they actually got out of acting like whores and they often feel horrible. See MD Anonymous’ Unprotected: A Campus Psychiatrist Reveals How Political Correctness in Her Profession Endangers Every Student, or see Dawn Eden’s Thrill of the Chaste.If they feel horrible simply because they are like everyone else, they do need psychiatric help.
These young women often end up devastated, cynical, angry and rarely know why.They would even be more devastated and angry if they have not had sex while knowing that everyone else did.