Actually, I don't see those types as men. I love men.
I see these folks as people who were unable to progress past being boys.
Boys are cute when they're little and even as teengers.
Boys aren't so cute once they've gotten past about 21 years old.
Men, on the other hand....love 'em.
;-)
"Boys to men" seems to be somewhat of a delayed process these days.
And the men know of course that you love 'em! LOL. Safe Home for Turkey!
I would say that your R&R is very timely, if I was asked to bet on it.