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Child support law leaves man a default dad
Tulsa World ^ | October 13, 2008 | Jarrel Wade

Posted on 10/14/2008 4:39:29 AM PDT by RogerFGay

Brande Samuels, 29, shows some
of the child support documents from
the Oklahoma Department of Human
Services. Samuels has been forced by
the state to pay child support for a
child but DNA tests show he is not the
father. SHERRY BROWN /
Tulsa World Friday


He promised himself and his family that when he left his prison cell, he would work hard to build a stable and positive life. After two years in prison, he was released early on good behavior and worked for less than minimum wage while he trained to become a welder. But that's when he first got notice from the Oklahoma Department of Human Services' Child Support Enforcement Division that he owed child support, he said.

Now, Samuels owes about $13,000 in back child support, he lives with his ailing grandfather and DHS seizes portions of his wages every month. "The last four years have been the worst in my life," Samuels said about life since leaving prison in 2004. "I went into so much debt." Samuels said under other circumstances he would take full responsibility for the child as a father should.

But he is not the father.


0.00 percent chance

Samuels was aware of the possibility that he might be the father during the pregnancy, he said. But the mother had been in another relationship at the same time.

"She wouldn't even allow me to sign the birth certificate," he said.

Two months later, the mother — Nadia Smith — put his name down as the father when she filed for child support, which Samuels wouldn't learn about until after his Oklahoma prison sentence, he said.

"They make (the mother) give up a name for the potential father. If she doesn't give up a name, then she can't get any assistance," Samuels said about the process to receive child support.

Jeff Wagner, spokesman for DHS, said when a mother is opening a child support case, she names the alleged father and provides "a great deal of information" in the Mother's Affidavit of Paternity.

In 2004, when Samuels left prison and learned of his obligation to DHS, case workers told Samuels if he wanted to fight the original order and get a hearing, he needed a lawyer, he said.

"I just want to be heard," he said. "The court was made for justice. It was made to help make the right decision."

Samuels did not have enough money to pay a lawyer, and no one would take his case for free, so in 2006, he approached Neighbor for Neighbor, a Tulsa nonprofit organization. They helped him prepare papers to require the mother to provide the child for a DNA test.

He found out then that the mother had left the state and had to be tracked down. She had left Oklahoma for Texas, Texas for Iowa, and then Iowa for Mississippi between 2004 and 2007, he said.

Neighbor for Neighbor helped Samuels track her through the courts and filed court papers seeking a DNA test from the child in March 2007, according to court records.

Two months later, Samuels received DNA evidence that the child support had been based on a false assumption. He was not the father — 0.00 percent chance.

"I was hurt. I was actually hurt because they put me through all this stuff without the child even being mine," he said.

After his three years of work, he believed he would be forgiven all his debt for the child, he said.

But it wasn't forgiven, and according to Oklahoma law, it won't be forgiven.


Default fatherhood

In child support cases, the burden of proof is on the alleged father — the accused — according to Oklahoma statutes.

An alleged father must appear at a child support hearing to request a paternity test. If he does not appear, he is legally designated as the father and child support is established in most cases.

Once designated as the father, that person is financially responsible for the child until he or she is 18 or adopted with a few stipulations for petitions which may vacate the original order, according to Oklahoma statutes.

DHS records show that Samuels was served papers to appear for his child support hearing in 2001, but Samuels said he was working in Texas at the time and could not have received the notice.

Wagner said by Oklahoma law someone can be legally served if the subpoena is put into the hands of someone 15 or older who lives at the same residence as the person.

But Samuels said the documents never touched his hands.

Regardless of the outcome of the DNA test, which Samuels spent three years trying to get, it was already too late.

Samuels was ruled the default father in 2001, and legally, DNA has no bearing.

"If you got me on default, you should still have to prove that I'm the father," he said.

This is the second recent story in the media of a default father being forced to pay child support in a bureaucratic nightmare with DHS.

The first, reported by The Oklahoman, was about Micheal Thomas of Tulsa, who had shown that he had never even met the mother and that he had DNA evidence that showed he wasn't the father. Still, he became a default father after missing his initial court hearing.

DHS does not keep statistics on the number of established fathers or default fathers who are not genetically related to the child they are responsible for, Wagner said.

In the eyes of the law and DHS, once paternity is established, there is no difference.

DHS officials would not comment on whether any changes have been made in establishing paternity since the Micheal Thomas case was reported.


Paternity figures

Between April 1, 2007, and March 31, the state Department of Human Services established paternity of 20,452 children in Oklahoma —of those cases, 5,208 were forced through court order, according to DHS Child Support Enforcement Division records.

In the same time period, there were 3,127 paternity tests conducted in DHS cases. Of those, 781 of the alleged fathers were found not to be the genetic father and were released from the case.


Jarrel Wade 581-8310
jarrel.wade@tulsaworld.com



TOPICS: Constitution/Conservatism; News/Current Events; Politics/Elections; US: Oklahoma
KEYWORDS: childsupport; custody; paternity
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To: RogerFGay
Nice try. I said that you couldn't. And look...you didn't.

I post in this thread for one reason...dead beat dads are scum. If the shoe fits....

141 posted on 10/14/2008 8:51:49 AM PDT by wtc911 ("How you gonna get back down that hill?")
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To: wtc911
No, I am a man who shoulders his responsibilities not one who quits the best country on the planet to avoid them...

Is "stalker" some kind of acronym for that?

142 posted on 10/14/2008 8:55:32 AM PDT by gogeo (Democrats want to support the troops by accusing them of war crimes.)
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To: RogerFGay

no i did not mean following a divorce...for instance in the 1st example of the nonmarried man and woman who live together and have a child. both agree that the child is the mans. now then say the mother is on drugs or an alcoholic and the child is in danger. the father by law can not i repeat can not leave the house with the child for its safety. if he does he can be arrested for kidnapping. (remember the man is on the birth cert)

now then example 2 same situation. the man and woman are married the father can legally take the child out of the home without any repercussions from the law.


143 posted on 10/14/2008 8:57:59 AM PDT by tatsinfla
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To: wtc911

You might as well give it up now and just start quoting the same-sex marriage decision by the Mass. court directly. Come out of the closet and tell us that all heterosexuals are scum who don’t deserve marriage and that they’re all unfit parents. You’re caught. Now at least stick to your word and quit FR.


144 posted on 10/14/2008 8:58:16 AM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: neefer

“18 years, 18 years,
She got one of yo kids, got you for 18 years.
I know somebody payin’ child support for one of his kids
His baby momma’s car and crib is bigger than his.
You will see him on TV Any Given Sunday,
Win the Superbowl and drive off in a Hyundai.
She was supposed to buy ya shorty TYCO with ya money,
She went to the doctor got lypo with ya money.
She walkin around lookin like Michael with ya money,
Should of got that insured got GEICO for ya moneeey.
If you aint no punk, holla “We Want Prenup”.
“WE WANT PRENUP!” Yeaah
It’s something that you need to have,
Cause when she leave yo ass she gonna leave with half.
18 years, 18 years
And on her 18th birthday he found out it wasn’t his?!?”


145 posted on 10/14/2008 8:59:02 AM PDT by Teacher317 (Suddenly a big time Palin supporter... who's that McCabe guy?)
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To: tatsinfla

Well yes. So, maybe I don’t understand the question. The unmarried guy is only going to get arrested if the mother files a complaint and says he’s not the father. OK, but there’s a distinction. I’m sure there’s a distinction. Now what? I guess I don’t understand the question.


146 posted on 10/14/2008 9:00:47 AM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: tatsinfla
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147 posted on 10/14/2008 9:01:39 AM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: wtc911
Why do I persist? Simple, I think that any guy who walks away from financial support for his own kids is no man...

You're entitled to your opinion, but not to thread hijacking.

148 posted on 10/14/2008 9:02:12 AM PDT by gogeo (Democrats want to support the troops by accusing them of war crimes.)
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To: RogerFGay
Your thoughts are not my words. Use my own words. Here they are again...

Dead beat dads are scum.

How's life in Sweden...ever hear from the kids?

149 posted on 10/14/2008 9:02:15 AM PDT by wtc911 ("How you gonna get back down that hill?")
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To: SECURE AMERICA
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150 posted on 10/14/2008 9:02:21 AM PDT by RogerFGay
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To: PapaBear3625
The point of the article is that this man is NOT the biological father, yet is ordered to pay support for a kid who is not his. Did you even read the article?

He's a stalker who's hijacking the thread, so the article is irrelevant.

What's the stalker's real agenda, I wonder?

156 posted on 10/14/2008 9:04:23 AM PDT by gogeo (Democrats want to support the troops by accusing them of war crimes.)
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